You might remember that last Friday, I casually mentioned that I had spent 2.5 hours cleaning up dog doo in our backyard. I shoveled enough to fill 25, yes 25, bags of crappage into the plastic Target bags that decorated my lawn. I then shoved them into a trash bag and it weighed so much that it still sits in the back, awaiting the muscles of my manly and studly husband, JJ (flattery does work when you want the job done).
We don’t normally have 2.5 hours worth of crappage to pick up. It’s just that the snow recently melted and since we have pretty much consistently had about four inches of it on the ground and it’s been colder than frigid, the hubby and I really didn’t go out much to do our job of clearing the yard.
But alas, the temperature has been rising and the snow is now gone. With that came the desire amongst my squirrely and cooped-up children to get out of the house already. I was right there with them.
Except when we went out, it was horrid. I will spare you the details. I am certain you can imagine.
I sent everyone back inside and parked them in front of “Fireman Sam” while I went about the process of cleaning.
I didn’t think it would take so long but everywhere I looked, there was another pile.
It was absolutely disgusting.
As I got over the initial grossness of what I was doing, I moved along, one pile at a time. I channeled Anne Lamott, my favorite writer of all-time, from Bird by Bird but instead of seeing my task as “bird by bird”, it was “pile by pile.” I’m sure Ann would be moved.
My mood deteriorated the longer I worked on it. I grumbled about our beloved family dog, Ellie, and wondered if we should get rid of her. Never mind my love for her gentle soul and the fact that she follows me around obsessively if I am crying until I stop. Or will nuzzle my arm in an attempt to get me to smile. Never mind that.
I openly said out-loud this was the most disgusting task I have ever undertaken. I began to create a pity party for myself and I was the only guest invited.
I love being a mother. I don’t always love the other stuff that comes with that job though. I am not overwhelmed with excitement when I see seven loads of laundry that need to be washed, dried, folded and put away.
I am not always a cheerful cook for our family meals.
Trying to keep clutter at bay in my home is a full-time job within itself.
Blah-blah, blah-blah, blah-blah.
That’s when it hit me.
I have been preparing to speak to my MOPS group on the topic of my spiritual journey and how God has worked in my nutso-ball life (click on the “Life Story” page above to read the first two installments) so my head has been filled with more faithful thoughts than normal. It’s really how it should always be but that’s another post for another time.
It occurred to me that as I am complaining about having to pick up all this crappage, 25 bags of it to be exact, and thinking of how much other stuff I have to do that I don’t necessarily enjoy, I was maybe being a tad bit of a super-whiner.
I am certain that Jesus did not always enjoy what he had to do.
Now let me just state for the record that I am in no way suggesting that I’m even remotely on the same plane as Jesus because just to type this makes me almost laugh so hard that I might have to get up and use the loo. And I’m not even British.
But a great teacher he was and was so relatable because he was human. I found myself relating to Jesus. Over dog poop. Proof once again that He will use ANYTHING, anything at all to get our attention and teach us a thing or two.
A friend of mine recently mentioned the scripture of Jesus washing the feet of his disciples before the last supper. I had not thought of this passage in a while and her story brought it back to my mind. (John 13)
In Biblical times, feet were offensive. I don’t think anyone went to Le Nails for pedicures back then because NO ONE touched anyone’s feet. They were unclean. Dirty. Tainted.
Yet here is Jesus, the Lord, the Savior, who had men that followed Him and worshiped Him, washing the feet of his disciples. And one of the pairs he washed belonged to the man that was hours away from betraying Him. Can you imagine? He washed the feet of the man that would ultimately be responsible for killing him on the cross. And more extraordinary is the fact that He knew this was about to happen and knew who would be responsible.
Now if that didn’t just humble my dog-poo-picking-up-laundry-doing-meal-cooking self, I don’t know what will.
We live in a different time (which is good because have I ever mentioned how much I love pedicures?). I have heard people comment that the Bible is “just a history book”. I see their argument though I don’t agree with this view.
However, application from that history book can still be experienced more than 2,000 years later. We may not literally be washing each other’s feet but figuratively?
Hopefully, we’re doing it every day.
We wash another’s feet when we smile at them when we make eye contact. We wash our family’s feet when we do the loads of laundry, prepare the meals, PICK UP THE FLIPPIN’ DOG POO. We wash feet when we say “I’m sorry. I was wrong. Will you please forgive me?”
Anytime we do something we don’t want to do that is for the greater good, we are washing feet.
May our neighbors, our family, our friends always have clean feet. And may we do it with a serving heart.
Not like the heart I had when I was picking up the poo, please.
Thanks for sharing this story! It makes me feel like running upstairs and folding that clean laundry piled on my bed, but UGH! I guess that is your point. Thanks for putting a happier face on some of these “duties” awaiting me! Have a bright day!
Thanks for commenting, Kelly! I hope you folded that laundry with reckless abandon, girl! :) Thank you so much for reading!
You poor thing. Your muscles are going to be sore from picking up poo!! You deserve a nice cocktail…or two.
Sadie at heyMamas
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Yep, did that already…Friday night…
Okay…I guess I HAVE to clean up the dog poo in my backyard now!! :)) Thanks for sharing!!
Hopefully not 25 bags of it?
What a nice analogy. Nice to put a positive spin on the undesirable chores we have to do.
Not sure if you saw my comment last week. Just wanted to make one more attempt to reach you, since I can’t find an email? We had hoped to feature you on BlogTrotting this Wednesday. Can you contact me about this, just to let me know either way? Thanks!
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Always looking for the joy…:)
I am SO familiar with this chore. Oh, to have the heart of a true servant. There is little else that humbles quite like having direct contact with poo of any sort. Cleaning toilets, just count that as my sacred duty. I have to swallow all of the pride I have every imagined to do the toilets. Thank you for this picture. I need to live inside this humility.
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I love the picture as well, Tracy. I think I am going to print it and put it on my refrigerator and teach my children about it as well. Though as literal as we are at this age, we might be doing a lot of real feet washing at our house…Which might not be a bad thing as long as it’s MY feet they are washing, right?
I’m with you on the toilets…Another job I don’t enjoy…
Wow, this is such a powerful post. I can’t tell you how much I needed to hear it. I’ll admit that the hardest part of me being a stay-at-home mom is all the little things that I just don’t want to ‘bother’ with. Dishes, laundry, cleaning up endless piles of toys. I rarely get to my own ‘clutter’ because somehow the 2 year old has taken over. I sometimes feel like I’m not contributing anything to society. I feel like I’m a fading nobody who wants to do great and big things, but I know that’s silly….being a mom is quite possibly one of the MOST important things I will EVER do.
Thank you for posting this.
~melody~
I know, Melody – I think we all feel this at times. You are so correct in that there is nothing more valuable that we could be doing – I really believe this wholeheartedly – but sometimes I feel like I am a little lost. I am just thankful that this is normal and I can work through it. I won’t ever get these years back with my babies so I try to remind myself of this fact when I am feeling overwhelmed. You are so not alone, girl.
Oh, I love this post!! The verses about Jesus washing his disciples feet have just really been standing out to me lately (especially when I’m complaining about how hard it is to keep up with my own family let alone manage my MOPS group). Love is something we do! And He showed us the most excellent way!
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Natalie, you bring a smile to my face and a tear to my eye in the same post…wow. It is amazing how Jesus can use ANYTHING in our humble little lives to teach us a lesson, if only we are open to receive it.
I never thought of “serving” my family in this way, but you are exactly right. Thanks for this insight!
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